The inbuilt complex !!!

The main problem that every young boys and girls face is friends of opposite sex. Some feel it has prestige / esteem, some feel it as compulsion, some feel it as pressure and some feel it is even the meaning of life !!!

Okay. Where does the word complex come from !?!? How it is related to this post !?!? That is what we are to deal in detail.

Suppose a guy is talking with a girl on a road. He might one of these two feelings.

1. He never cares about others. He want to spend considerable time with her. He enjoys others seeing him.
2. He cares more on society. He puts himself under pressure in this situation.

Other guys who see this scenario may act in one of these two ways.

1. He may remain silent, but may feel jealous / develop a inferiority complex inside.
2. He may just openly comment / think about his pair and silently move away.

Now complex arises here. A guy who sees the couple starts comparing himself with them. For example, consider the guy is of dark complexion and the girl is extremely good. He starts comparing himself with that guy. In what way I lag from him. Why I didn't get a girl !??!?

This creates a sort of inferiority complex. It becomes too big that he even start doubting the brothers and sisters standing on the road.

Another case is also possible. The guy who has girl friend develop a superiority complex in him. He starts treating himself as hero. Treating self as hero is nothing wrong, but he also begin to underestimate others.

The third worst possible case is the situation of person who cares more about the public. He puts himself under pressure, because of which he might not be good in dealing with relationship with the girl. This may probably break up their relationship or make girl feel that he cares least about her. This creates extra stress on that guy resulting in loss of relationship and also loss of personal image.

Note: All these applies for girls also.

Now what is the solution for all these problems !?!?

The most simple and practical solution is - treat girls and boys equally. Allow boys and girls to share their ideas freely. The best solution for this problem will be mutual understanding between boys and girls.

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